What do you do...I have been with my man for 6 years. He pretty much told me I have to give him or he'll?

I don't blame you. Maybe you guys could compromise more time in bed and less time on the bottle? I am only saying this because is important in a healthy relationship and too much drinking is a big problem. But make sure he's actually going to quit drinking because he is probably just trying to blame his alcoholism on you. Try and get him to quit first. Then if you feel like there is something you need to work out with yourself and him as far as the bedroom goes do it. Talk about it tell him how you feel and hopefully you'll both be rewarded.